Subject: Urgent Concerns Regarding Misandry, Gender Relations, and the Treatment of Men Across Scandinavia and the European Union

I am writing to express my grave concerns regarding the systemic issues facing men across Scandinavia and the broader European Union. There has been a profound shift in societal and governmental attitudes that have increasingly marginalized men, undermined their roles in family and society, and failed to address the negative consequences of toxic femininity and modern feminist ideologies. The treatment of men in our society has reached an alarming point, and it is critical that we initiate meaningful discussions and implement reforms to correct these imbalances before they lead to irreversible social and demographic consequences.

The Declining Birth Rate and Its Root Causes in Scandinavia and the EU

Scandinavia, and indeed much of Western Europe, is experiencing an acute demographic crisis. The birth rate across these regions has fallen dramatically, exacerbated by the erosion of traditional family structures and a growing cultural divide between men and women. This demographic decline threatens the economic stability and future prosperity of these nations. While multiple factors contribute to this crisis, one of the central issues is the increasing alienation of men within both personal relationships and wider societal roles.

The prevailing feminist narratives in many European countries, including those championed by EU institutions, have created an environment where men are increasingly seen as disposable or irrelevant—reduced to mere financial contributors or biological agents for reproduction. This toxic mindset, coupled with the increasing misandric sentiment in public discourse, has alienated men, leaving them reluctant to engage in relationships, marriage, or child-rearing. This cultural shift, exacerbated by EU policies and directives, is directly contributing to the demographic decline we are witnessing.

The Rise of Toxic Feminism and Misandry in the EU

The EU, under the leadership of Ursula von der Leyen and other key policymakers, has failed to address the growing tide of misandry and the normalization of toxic feminism. While feminist ideologies, when rooted in the quest for genuine equality, have a valuable place in modern society, the contemporary version of feminism has become increasingly hostile toward men. This version of feminism often portrays men as the root cause of societal issues, while disregarding the legitimate challenges that men face today.

In the public sphere, men are increasingly vilified, with their emotional well-being, rights, and societal contributions being downplayed or completely ignored. In political discourse, men’s issues—whether related to family law, mental health, or education—are often dismissed or sidelined. The EU’s failure to acknowledge and address these issues not only harms men but also undermines the core principle of gender equality that the EU purports to uphold.

Legal and Social Disadvantages for Men in the EU and Scandinavia

One of the most glaring examples of the systemic issues facing men today is the treatment of fathers in family law. Across Scandinavia and many EU member states, men are often treated as secondary parents in the eyes of the law. In divorce proceedings, men are overwhelmingly disadvantaged, with women granted preferential custody rights. The notion of men as mere sperm donors, whose financial and emotional contributions are undervalued or disregarded, has become disturbingly common.

In many cases, men are forced to endure punitive child support obligations without recognition of their role as fathers or their rights to have a meaningful relationship with their children. Furthermore, there is a stark lack of support for men’s mental health, particularly for fathers who face the trauma of losing access to their children. These systemic failures, which are perpetuated by EU policy in many instances, contribute directly to the sense of alienation and disillusionment felt by many men across Europe.

The EU’s Inaction on Men’s Issues

Despite the EU’s professed commitment to human rights and equality, the treatment of men by EU institutions, including the European Parliament and the European Commission, has been nothing short of neglectful. There has been a consistent failure to address the systemic challenges that men face in areas such as family law, education, and mental health. Instead, the EU has largely turned a blind eye to the issues affecting men, choosing to focus disproportionately on women’s rights, often to the exclusion of men’s equally pressing needs.

Under the leadership of Ursula von der Leyen, the European Commission has placed a strong emphasis on gender equality, yet this agenda has been overwhelmingly skewed toward the interests of women. While women’s rights are undeniably important and should continue to be championed, true gender equality must also take into account the challenges faced by men. The EU has an obligation to create a more balanced approach to gender policy—one that acknowledges and addresses the struggles men face and seeks to create a truly equitable society for all citizens, regardless of gender.

A Call for Comprehensive Reform

The time has come for the EU, the European Commission, and the European Parliament to recognize the damaging consequences of ignoring men’s issues. A balanced and inclusive approach to gender equality requires that both men and women be treated as equals, with policies that respect their respective roles and contributions to society. This includes reforming family laws to ensure that fathers have equal rights to their children and that men are not financially burdened in ways that undermine their dignity or ability to contribute meaningfully to society.

In addition, the EU must work to counter the rise of misandric rhetoric and toxic feminism in both public discourse and media, which continue to perpetuate harmful stereotypes and create divisions between the sexes. Men’s mental health, education, and social engagement must be prioritized, and the EU must take concrete steps to address the systemic failures that contribute to the alienation of men in modern society.

The European Union has a duty to promote true gender equality, which includes addressing the needs and rights of men, as well as women. If the EU is serious about creating an equitable society, it must take immediate and decisive action to reform its policies and institutions to reflect this commitment.

Thank you for your attention to this urgent matter. I look forward to your response and hope that we can work together to create a more just and balanced society for all.